David - Going back to your much earlier comment,
"I got to the point where I thought I would need to merge public profiles which a curator could do but I can't so I stopped because I would not be able to complete the job."
I find that is very helpful to have some of that advance stacking done - even if you can't finish the merge - as it can lessen the time I need to spend there and can then tackle an issue for someone else.
Also, those pending/requested merges will show up in more manager and collaborator filters increasing the odds again that someone other than a curator can attend to it.
Thanks for stepping in and doing as much as you did!