I think it is wise to look at the direct family. According to genicom these families are very closely related.
@Lothar I, Graf von Stade is my 27th great uncle. His half sister @Hildegard von Stade, duchess of Saxony is my 26th great grandmother.
His sister @Kunigunde von Stade is my 27th great grandfather's wife, she had 3 husbands, her husband @Brun I, count of Brunswick is my 27th great grandfather.
This Kunigunde was also married to @Siegfried I "der Ältere", Graf von Walbeck, brother of @Eilika (Eiliswintha or Eila) von Walbeck, Gräfin von Schweinfurt, my 27th great grandmother and of @Lothar III, von Walbeck, Markgraf der Nordmark my 28th great uncle.
Her third husband was @Dietrich I. von Querfurt my 29th great uncle, brother of @Mathilde von Arneburg, Gräfin von Walbeck my 28th great grandmother. wife of @Lothar II, von Walbeck my 28th great grandfather.